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Having Respectful Communication With Your Kid’s Coach

Taking in the season from the bleachers can be an emotionally taxing experience. As a parent of a youth sports athlete, it is difficult to communicate emotions with your kid’s coach without crossing the line. It is far too often that parents intervene inappropriately and make a negative impact on their child’s experience. These instances also take a toll on the team environment as a whole.

Below you will find helpful tips to better understand how you can build respect with your kid’s coach through healthy communication.

Support your young athlete by establishing communication and respect with their coach

Focus on Solutions and Ask Questions

When communicating with your kid’s coach, it’s important to focus on solutions and to ask questions. While it’s natural to have concerns or frustration, it’s best to approach the situation with an open mind and a desire to find an understanding. Ask questions about how you can support your child and their team. Focus on finding a resolution to your concerns without harping on them directly. This will help to create an environment of mutual respect and understanding between you and the coach.

It’s also important to remember that the coach is in charge of the team. They have the authority to make their own decisions. While it’s natural to want to have a say in how things are done—particularly in regards to your child—it’s important to remember that the coach is ultimately responsible for the team. Respect their decisions and trust that they have your child’s best interests in mind.

Be Respectful of Their Time

It’s important to be respectful of the coach’s time when communicating with them. Don’t expect them to be available 24/7 or to respond to your questions immediately. If you have a concern, try to set up a meeting or phone call with the coach at a time that is convenient for them. This will help to ensure that your questions are answered in a timely manner and that the coach is not overwhelmed by your requests.

It’s also important to be respectful when communicating with the coach. Don’t be confrontational or aggressive, as this will only make things worse. Speak to the coach in a calm and respectful manner and be sure to listen to what they have to say. This will help to create an atmosphere of mutual respect and understanding. If you feel as if communication is failing, or that you are going unheard, it is good to remember that honesty is the best policy. Just remember that you can speak your mind and be fully transparent without being rude or aggressive.

Understand Your Role

Finally, it’s important to understand your role as a youth sports parent. While it’s natural to want to be involved in your child’s hobbies, it’s important to remember that the coach is in charge of their team. Don’t try to take control of the team, your kid’s perspective, or interfere in coach’s decisions. Instead, focus on providing support and encouragement to your child and their team. This will help to create an environment of mutual respect and understanding between all of the team’s parents, players, and the coach. Additionally, as a parent who knows their role, you will find communication with the coach to come far more easily.

Maintaining communication with your kid’s coach can be difficult, but it’s important to remember to remain respectful and understanding. Keep these tips in mind and focus on finding a resolution that is beneficial for everyone. This will help to ensure that your child’s experience is a positive one and that the team is successful.


Respect and communication between coach, parent and athlete

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