Hello Tiffany, You have a lot going on here, if your part of CYSA or AYSO, you can appeal to the organization and withdrawal from any club assuming your fees or dues were paid, there is no reason to not allow you to leave. In fact if a specific club is giving you grief, just email or call the organization that governs them. I will answer a few things remember these are in general, some things could not be clearly defined due to a lack of information like skill level, exact age group playing, level of play (Premier, gold or silver), how many teams in that age group, and how many months out of the year- that team plays. These are crucial in determining what to do in your particular circumstance.
In almost 99% of cases a player at that age should never play up, because of a loss of skill development(mentally & Physically) at his own age group. Your Coach is everything, he learns the players, motivates them, earns their trust, and therefore he or she brings out hopefully the best in them.
If a player is playing on the team -moved down to the team for numbers sake, the teams are either to water downed and the club is doing it for money, or their main goal is not about developing the kids and it is about winning. Which is the wrong message at that age, and for some not the way to in developing youth soccer for kids, under 19 yrs of age. Coach should never not show up or be late- in clubs I'm from those are grounds for dismissal.
As far as coach not communicating to you that would be an issue to complain about with the coach, if your heated after a game and you try to talk with coach it would be understandable that your not suppose say anything to him or her. Most clubs in California have what is called a 24hr cooling off period for parents before complaining or registering complaints for the coach or whatever. With that said, you have to remember this is youth soccer, and your not playing world cup, so make sure your doing this for your kids( right reason), and not yourself or friends or whatever(wrong reasons). Because eventually this and decisions you make will ultimately harm your child. No matter where you go club wise you will have most of the same problems, the better the club is run in most cases, the most it will benefit your child and the more it will cost, $2000 is about average for a comp club. I'm in Norcal and a lot of clubs here are well over $2500. Hope this helps some.
In closing if they don't have enough players, they shouldn't form the team!
Best Regards,
Don Villella
NSCAA National Diploma
Staff Instructor - CYSA-N
CYSA -California Youth Soccer Association
North Bay Elite Head Coach
John Swett High School Varsity Girls Coach
Coach District 4 ODP '96 Boys Team
Soccer | Concord, CA
July 03, 2017
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